Thursday 27 August 2015

Promoting the homosexual lifestyle

I heard that old dinosaur Rev Fred Nile today describe the screening of documentary Gayby Baby in NSW High Schools as “promoting the homosexual lifestyle”. You often hear Fred talk of “the homosexual lifestyle”. It is one of his major themes. In those three words, you can hear the complete ‘othering’ of gay people down through history, by patriarchy, by the Church, by religion. It is as if these ‘homosexuals’ who have this ‘lifestyle’ have come from another planet. To Fred, there is nothing recognisable in these people. There is no shared humanity. They are completely and totally foreign to him. These ‘homosexuals’ with their ‘lifestyle’ are as alien to Fred as a Mariana Trench electric deep sea creature. Under the withering judgement of Fred and his allies and their constant refrain of “the homosexual lifestyle”, we are barely human.

The notion that we are “promoting” this lifestyle bears some scrutiny. In some sick twisted religious unscientific model, Fred sees gay people, in fact, all LGBTI people, as being deranged unnatural sinners with an illness brought about by child molestation or an overbearing mother, and that our agenda is to make as many people in the world as possible, gay. Fred thinks we want to start this mission in the schools. That way, we can ‘turn’ as many kids gay as we possibly can, as if they are vampires in a modern horror show. For him, it is promoting being gay as being normal and healthy and lovely and acceptable. 'Aagghhhh', says Fred, 'that is totally unacceptable'. 

Showing Gayby Baby, a PG rated documentary about kids growing up happily in same-sex parented households is for Fred and his ilk, proof beyond doubt, of the nefarious gay agenda to, wait for it, “promote the homosexual lifestyle”, that we want to go about making “the homosexual lifestyle” normal. Instead, it is just a film depicting the everydayness of same-sex parented families as they navigate family life.


Gayby Baby 2015 Official Trailer


So, let me just offer a correction to Fred and all the other pastors who think his way. 

If you think that the LGBTI community wants to let kids know that it is okay to be gay or lesbian, then you are spot on; we do. If you think we want kids to know that being gay is not a sin or a sickness, then you are absolutely spot on again; we do. If you think we want to let kids and adults know that being gay is not unnatural or a rejection of God or a disappointment, then you are absolutely totally 100% right; we do. If you think that we want to teach kids and adults about homophobia and keeping safe, you're right; we do. If you think we want the world to know that our relationships are the equal of those in the straight world and in no way inferior, you are totally right; we do. If you think that the LGBTI community wants gay and lesbian kids and adults to know that they can lead happy, successful and fulfilled lives, then you could not be more right; we so do. 

These are definitely undoubtedly unequivocally our aims. That IS our agenda. To bring to public awareness the great gains we have made in understanding human sexuality and to assist society to cast off thousands of years of oppressive thinking and behaviour. And we'll tell the kids, the adults, the oldies and everyone in between. So that means we will need to let people know that your idiotic concept of “homosexual lifestyle” is not what you think it is at all, but is in fact the course and manner of our very human lives.


Your ‘othering’ of us is offensive. It is also harmful and hurtful. And it is so last century. We've moved on Fred. Younger people who are coming to terms with their sexuality do not need the confusion of the traditional teachings of the Church thrust upon them under the banner of ‘speaking the truth in love’. It’s not love at all. It is just plain ignorance. And if it persists in the face of evidence, then it’s plain bigotry as well. What they do need is support, love, acceptance, and sensible up-to-date information. So if by "promoting the homosexual lifestyle" you mean telling people that being gay is okay and educating society out of ignorance and prejudice, then I am more than happy to “promote the homosexual lifestyle”  and trust that those efforts will help not only the LGBTI community, but our families and friends and society in general, as we grow and evolve into a more informed and accepting modern society.

Saturday 22 August 2015

Of Church and State and Marriage Equality


The Australia of the last few years has seen religious fundamentalism attempt to show its might by pushing its way to the head of the pack in political and social issues. It’s not so much radical jihadism in Australia as it is rabid evangelical fundamentalism. We’ve seen this in issues such as religious education in schools, school chaplaincy programs, occasionally abortion, and perhaps no-where more prominently than in the debate over marriage equality for gay and lesbian people. We have even seen the unedifying spectacle of leaders of Government and Opposition making the three yearly pilgrimage to the Australian Christian Lobby’s conference and spruiking a sanitised message for them in the hope they will support them publicly and thus having to offer them a platform that they believe the ACL will support; as though the ACL is the repository of all things Christian and represent the faith across Australia – which they don’t!

Whatever happened to the idea of separation of church and state? Isn’t that supposed to be enshrined in Australian public life for the good of the nation? After all, haven’t we been able to avoid most of the ugly and dangerous religious squabbles of Europe and elsewhere precisely because of this separation?

Section 116 of the Australian Constitution specifically refers to religion and allows for four tenets:
“The Commonwealth shall not make any law for establishing any religion, or for imposing any religious observance, or for prohibiting the free exercise of any religion, and no religious test shall be required as a qualification for any office or public trust under the Commonwealth”.

It’s pretty great, isn’t it. It draws on, and outdoes I think, America’s First Amendment, “Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof”. While America’s is specific in denying the right of a religion to be the ‘established’ or official religion of the land and denying the right of a government to stop people exercising their right to religious freedom, it stops there. Australia’s on the other hand goes a little further explicitly:
  •       No established religion
  •       No government can legislate to impose any religious observance
  •       No government can legislate to prohibit the free exercise of religious observance
  •       No religious test or benchmark for holding any public office.

It is therefore not uncommon to hear some say that because of these mighty four, that the separation of church and state is enshrined in our Constitution. In fact, such separation is not enshrined in the Constitution and the High Court has explicitly said so in the State Aid or Defence of Government Schools case in 1981.

Justice Sir Ronald Wilson said:
The fact is that s.116 is a denial of legislative power to the Commonwealth and no more … The provision therefore cannot answer the description of a law which guarantees within Australia the separation of church and state.

Justice Sir Ninian Stephen said s.116:
... cannot readily be viewed as a repository of some broad statement of principle concerning the separation of church and state, from which may be distilled the detailed consequences of such separation.

So, s116 is merely a “denial of legislative power”, and a welcome one, don’t get me wrong, but not a “broad statement of principle”, a fleshed out doctrine of separation of church and state. But there is a loose convention of behaviour that has been followed in Australia because of this Constitutional general attitude. And it is essential that we keep such a convention in mind when tackling social issues. I want the clergy out of people’s bedrooms and out of people’s hearts. I want adults to be free to make their own decisions about their own lives and not have to worry about breaking the law. I am not a libertarian, but in this, yes, I want small government and small church.

So why do I think s116 is a welcome statement of delimitation? Simply this. I believe that both the church and the legislature work best when they do not have jurisdiction over the other. Allow me to refine that. I like the fact that people can go to church or the mosque or the temple without fear or interference from the Government. I like the fact they can do that without having to look over their shoulder to see who’s following them. I like the fact that our successive Governments have the freedom to legislate for the common good and do not have to do so from any religious premise or any sacred text. Thus, though Fred Nile insists on calling Australia a Christian country, and does so only because of our historical connections, in fact and in law, we are not. And we shouldn’t be. We are not a Christian country in law. And we are not a Christian country in the lived experience of this multi-cultural, multi-faith secular land. There is no established religion in Australia. While Fred Nile might be an antidisestablishmentarian, I certainly am not (and I can’t tell you how long I’ve been waiting to use that word in a serious piece of prose)!

Australia has never wanted a theocracy, a country headed up by clerics and priests. In fact, ever since the days of Samuel Marsden ‘the flogging parson’ of early colonial NSW times, we have had a distinct mistrust of the clergy and the Church. We’ve seen theocracy at work in Iran and Saudi Arabia. Clerics running the show, telling everyone what is acceptable thought and behaviour and what is not and applying penalties and punishments for infringements. Of course, the dominant religion in such countries gets to wield the power. And such religious authority finds the personal lives of its citizenry by far and away the easiest thing to target: gender, sexuality, marriage, children, and relationships. Lots of rules around this stuff. And lots of punishments because of those rules.

So, for me, Government free to govern for the common good of the nation, with the Church (or mosque or temple) free to enrich the spiritual lives of people is the best way to go. That’s not to say that I think either are necessarily doing a great job. I don’t. Both government and church could really lift their game. However, there are two exceptions for me concerning this necessary separation; one where I think Government should step in to the religious life of a nation, and the other, where religion should step in and have a say about governance.

The first is in the matter of religious coercion. This can be either overt or covert. It can be socially approved and wrapped in sacralised language or it can be secretive and very nasty. I am thinking here of cults. I think there is a place for removing children from some of these groups, and maybe even some adults in certain cases. No ‘right’ of freedom of religious observance should protect adults indoctrinating kids into harmful belief and practice. Removals have been done, eg., in 1987, six children were removed from the cult The Family in Lake Eildon Victoria, and more recently in 2012, twelve children were removed from an incestuous religious cult in rural NSW. No religion, I don’t care what it is, should have the freedom to harm people or coerce people to remain observant for fear of leaving. If there is physical or psychological harm visited upon adherents, there is a place for Government and its law enforcement agencies. Such coercive behaviour is not even remotely authentic spirituality.

The second caveat I mentioned above is when Governments are out of step with ethical considerations, where people are glossed over or ignored and legislation with the bottom line becomes the dominating factor, eg., environmental concerns. Recently, we have seen religion speak truth to power: Pope Francis on the world stage calling for a halt to unfettered capitalism and industrialisation to the detriment of the planet in his call to world action on climate change, and more locally, we have seen here both Christian and Moslem clerics call for serious action on climate change to the present Federal Government in Australia. We have also heard the Churches speak up about indigenous rights and mental health programs for example. And so they should.

And so to the issue of the moment. Marriage equality in Australia is the big issue right now where the maintenance of separation of church and state is crucial. Perhaps no other factor has caused the LGBTI community so much distress and pain as the Christian Church. The Church in Australia is a diverse group. It is certainly not a homogeneous entity with one set of beliefs and praxis. Rather, it is a multitude of beliefs around the centrality of Christ as well as huge differences in style and structure of liturgy.

However, one section of this group is the loudest and the most strident, and for me as a result of what I see as arrogance, the most objectionable. In their everyday vernacular, they would call themselves ‘Bible-believing Christians’ but others would call them ‘evangelical* fundamentalists’, a group that represents for me now, all that is wrong with religion. With an emphasis on a sola scriptura model of Scripture that is virtually Bibliolatry and a model of interpretation that is essentially face-value, literalist, conservative, rejecting of scholarship that differs from their traditional view, with a focus on a few sacred cows, plus a willingness to use it as a weapon against dissenters, and all this favoured over any sense of human lived experience, this crowd in times past were the ‘holy rollers’, the ‘God-botherers’, the ‘Bible bashers’ and Australians have traditionally steered well clear of them.

There is absolutely no truth other than their truth about all matters and especially it would seem, about gay sexuality. They are not just oppositional to marriage equality but belligerently so. I have come to conclude after engaging them over the last few years on matters gay that they trichotomise the world, ie., they divide it into three groups: real Christians (them), false fake Christians (others who profess Christian spirituality but not according to their model) and the unsaved (ever other human being in the world that lives or who has ever lived or who will ever live who doesn’t have a particular kind of salvation experience). And there is no budging them from this. They will go down with the ship on this one. Jesus himself could appear before them and say, “hey guys, you haven’t quite got it right” and they wouldn’t listen. They are so rusted on to this model which has the Bible as their single and only argument that they appear to me to be totally lacking any insight as to how ridiculous, how absurd, how offensive, how rude, and how arrogant they usually sound.

So their view of gay marriage? Totally and completely against it and always will be. Hell will freeze over before they give a millimetre on this. They will never agree to marriage equality because they will never ever accept gay sexuality as being a valid life. Let me repeat what I have oft repeated elsewhere. For them, a gay sexuality is unequivocally and without the slightest shred of doubt: a sin, a rejection of God, a repudiation of all things Godly and holy, selfish, indulgent, against the order of nature and a punishment by God and deserving of eternal punishment, “for such as these will not inherit the Kingdom of God”, a choice and a reprehensible lifestyle. And because of this, they see our relationships as counterfeit, not real love, fake, based in lust or deviancy and therefore, totally inferior to straight relationhips. They will quote you chapter and verse to prove every word they say. They will also ignore every argument against this model because of their Bible and the way they see it. They will ignore all science, all psychology, all biology, all genetics, all anthropology, all sociology, all history, all scholarship. Its’ just the Bible, the Bible, the Bible, the Bible, the Bible, the Bible.

So when we talk about a plebiscite for all Australians to decide whether to continue discrimination or not over marriage equality, ie., to treat one group of Australians differently before the law compared to the rest of Australia, I don’t feel at all comfortable in knowing that evangelical fundamentalists get to have a say about the nature and quality of my relationship and those of every other gay person in the land. It’s like asking Kim Jong Un if he feels that South Koreans need a bit more support in their defence capabilities. Why would you ask a sworn enemy of LGBTI people to decide our fate? I think it is wrong. And unjust. And blurring the convention of separation of church and state.

The marriage equality debate in Australia is a fair debate and I don’t even mind having a robust argument with opponents. But let’s not do that on religious grounds. This is not a religious question, despite fundamentalists declaring that it is. Half of them believe it is a demonic force having its sway over the land and inviting the judgment of God. Seriously. I actually mean it. But no, we are not talking about religious ceremonies or religious observance being effected in any way. We are talking about gay people having the right to marry their partner in an authorised civil ceremony, as do 70% of heterosexual Australians right now, and having their duly solemnised relationship affirmed by society represented by their family and friends. That’s all. That’s it. It’s hardly the apocalypse.

The religionists can do what they like in their churches. But I do think that we will see the day when some churches, not all, will be happy to marry people in their beautiful buildings too in the future. Some will, some won’t. And some gay people would love that, and some gay people wouldn’t darken the doorway of a church after our treatment by traditional Christianity. And I wouldn’t blame them for a moment. But gays getting married in churches is not what is being proposed here.

I still think the Parliament is the place for this decision. A plebiscite will be an open invitation to the fundamentalists to pour all over this with their objections to gay people. It is just bigotry. And wow, have you noticed how much they don’t like being called bigots? They do not like being called out. But yes it is bigotry; nothing less. Religious bigotry. And it is homophobia too in many cases. As a society, we have realised that racism and sexism are to be deplored and we all as one work to ensure they do not occur. No religious person is tolerated offering religious rationales for racism or bigotry. That time is gone. It is totally unacceptable. I think it is high time we moved onto treating homophobia in the same manner. It is just not acceptable in the twenty first century with what we now know about human sexuality, and gay sexuality in particular, to tolerate homophobic ‘authoritative’ statements by anyone, be they pastor or priest.

The proposal for marriage equality in Australia is not a religious issue. It is a civil issue and a human rights issue, whose institution should be decided by the Parliament. We should adhere to the convention of the separation of church and state in this matter; a convention that has served us well, and not allow fundamentalist Christians to highjack the decision or to steer it in any meaningful way. Their myopic impoverished spirituality has its place in their churches and their study groups and in their own personal lives but has no place in deciding the outcome of how this nation decides to organise itself with regard to its gay and lesbian tax-paying citizens and how their relationships are to be recognised. I trust the good sense of the Australian people to continue to eschew such stupidity.

*I do not mean by this that all evangelicals are fundamentalists. Clearly, they are not. I know plenty of evangelical people with whom I may no longer hold the same model of scripture, but who I regard as kind and loving people and sophisticated thinkers. So this paper is not referring to such as them.

Some Levity

To lighten the tone after that, I include a Letter to The Editor of the Newcastle Herald by a former friend of mine who told me I was ‘a false teacher’ and that ‘better had there been a millstone tied around my neck and I be cast into the sea rather than I lead anyone astray’ which is precisely what he thought I was doing. Last week, Herald journalist Joanne McCarthy interviewed me about the local bishops’ response to marriage equality (surprisingly not bad for senior clerics) and he wrote the letter in response. It is the usual stuff, devoid of anything remotely sophisticated. I didn’t know that even ‘etc’ is sinful and wrong, but apparently it is. It also peddles out the fear mongering at the end (fundamentalists love ratcheting up the fear and retribution dial) with a vengeful angry God judging our nation ‘to its peril’ should we allow marriage equality. But it also had a hilarious response in the Comments section that I just could not ignore. Whoever you are Sarcastic Sam, thank you for your contribution.

JOANNE McCarthy declares she is annoyed that a marriage celebrant is required by our law to say, “marriage is the union of a man and a woman” (‘‘My wedding checklist’’ Herald 15/8). 
However, I believe God will be happy with these words, because this is how he designed marriage to be.   According to my beliefs, God invented sex.  He therefore has the right to write the rules under which we should enjoy it, and he has done. 
For one thing, he makes it abundantly clear in his book, the Bible, that he opposes homosexual acts.  
If our law allowed marriage of a man to a man, or a woman to a woman, it would be condoning homosexual acts and therefore be at conflict with God. 
Homosexual acts, along with adultery, gossip, greed, hate, lust, lying, pride, etc, are all wrong, primarily because God has decreed it to be so.  
I believe setting the rules is God’s exclusive right, not ours, and any nation that changes them does so at its peril.  

Sarcastic Sam 
Very well written Frank. This is easily the most lucid, compelling and sensible argument against same sex marriage I have read. There is simply no counter argument to the facts and sound logic you have presented. Let's see those crazy gay marriage advocates try and dismantle this substantial argument. I think it's game, set and match to you on this one. I can't think of any plausible debate against the opinion you have put forward. Well done.